When Life Seems to Fall Apart…

About 2-4 years ago I had a massive transit happen that shifted everything in my life, in myself and caused me to reevaluate every to be true. What happened? Well I found Yoga, I mean real yoga, and began the process of getting out of the pose and normal everyday routine to discover something deeper… In that same year I lost everything and virtually every piece of my life fell apart: I got laid off, I had no job and was not able to get another easy job, my car broke, my cat died, my friends fell away, and old connections that were once meaningful randomly disappeared, as if vanished by thin air. My body changed, my choices changed, my socializing hours took a halt, and new peace was found in the simplicity of stillness. Life…well it took a drastic turn and all I had going for me was a beautiful beach I could sit on with unemployment money and some San Diego sunshine to ponder what the real purpose of life really was…


It did not matter that everything fell apart, I was actually over joyed that finally the desk and prolonged hours of sitting was no longer a mandatory wake up drive and necessity. The negative people and late night bar activities that seemed to be the only social option faded, and finally I was able to get back to something so much better that no shot or one night stand option could ever satisfy. It was liberating for me to be totally free and able to choose a new beginning and finally be out of the toxic environment where working for a paycheck and a bottle of chardonnay at the end of the day seemed like the happy prize for sitting cramped, stuck, bored, and totally unfulfilled. What I did not know is something else was calling, and that need within me to move, do, act, and be creative as the happy soul I knew myself to be was finally ready to break through and become someone more in alignment with who I knew myself to be… That old world paradigm of get up, go to work, have a job, eat, sleep and do it again was a routine I was unwilling and unable to follow anymore. So in my loss, and with everything falling away and dying, I was left alone to sit, wonder, contemplate, and ponder what I was really seeking and where I could go, what I could do to actually live a life of meaning and purpose and really wake up daily and be happy….

A lot has happened since then, even more has changed, and I’ve developed on a higher road of understanding the real meaning of letting go, and realizing yourself once more… There is journey, and to get on it, often things crumble so you can rebuild to a better state….

…When life falls apart, things change, and it seems like nothing is going in your direction, it is easy to fall into a trap, hold on, and lie and cheat whatever is trying to change. When destruction happens, the world you knew tumbles, and you are left alone, in panic, with fear, it is a sign and a blessing to help you breakthrough and find a better road that will take you somewhere happier…. Change is inevitable, and when you avoid it, shit will surmount. There is no hiding what the Universe wants you to know. Though in the misery, the tangled world that becomes scary like a horror movie will be no easy walk in the woods, when you come out from the dark shells that have bound you, you will look back and remember and see why you had to experience the rough road and tough times to get you to a better place….  You can always find a better place than where you are.

There is always a better road, and easier way to handle things, and a more peaceful place you can be. When you find the right road that really works for you, it can be scary to get on it, trust it, and leave everything behind to find it…. When the Universe beckons you to awaken, life is easier when you follow the call to awaken your heart and live with your higher soul as a brighter and happier force…… Sometimes change is inevitable, and in this new age there is no hiding from the power that wants us all to live happier, be free, and love better….

May the Summer bring you fate, show you destiny, & may the changes, and twists and turns of fate steer you in a better direction. May you evolve and become the person you KNOW yourself to be…. May you trust your journey, whatever may come on it…. Happy Summer & enjoy the change  ❤ YES YOU CAN!!!



*** Believe in Magic *** ~~

“Believe in Magic & Trust the Universe to bring you everything you think you want & more… Dream Big. Make a new Promise to You. Watch the Universe sparkle you with synchronicities, opportunities, & more. Believe in YOU! All it takes it your faith, hope, intention to witness magic unfold in your life. Yes You can, if you Believe”

Yes to You. Yes to Magic. Yes to the divine flow that happens when you Trust the Universe & Trust Yourself!

~*~ Kali Bliss ~*~


Begin Again


Life moves fast. There are always unexpected rip currents, rapids, and waves of emotional, mental, spiritual shifts that often leave us grieving some kind of outcome. Why is that? Human nature likes to hold. We find value in what we have done, what we have received, what has happened to us, and enjoy sharing the gifts that universe brings…. until something goes wrong, and a mysterious event propels our entire world to change. We don’t like to share about the darkness, so we hide and forget that those moments that make us crash are actually opportunities to rise above…and especially – change. We grieve for better a life, more people, better job, more money, etc. We forget about the basics that keep life simple, yet so happy: happiness and health. The extreme high of merely being alive, in a body, with a heart, and with the opportunity to choose your life as you experience it.

Of course things will happen, people will come and go, and other endless tides of uncertainty will manifest. No doubt there will be change and sometimes disaster, and that is okay. If you could take a moment to pause, take a deep breathe, feel your feet in the Earth, and look upon the horizon, at the sun shine, for the beautiful day that is, then maybe a new perspective would be seen. Life is meant to be enjoyed. Whatever you are doing, whatever your experience is, is perfectly okay. You are not meant to get somewhere or achieve something. Though, many are naturally inspired to work towards that. The beauty of life is found in the stillness, noticing, and being aware of the precious gifts that we are around us all daily. Some days they are harder to find than others, yet they remain. It may be a good friend, a loyal partner, a fun job, or living in a place that brings you, your soul, happiness. Be grateful. When the storms of life cause you to take a new road or walk a new path, accept what was with love. Forgive your mistakes and childish acts. Dismiss when your emotions got out of hand, and laugh about that time things went a little weird. Love the people who have helped you gain wisdom, clarity, and most importantly, made you smile. You are wonderful. Life is wonderful.Take a fresh breathe on the horizon of your life and see the wonderfulness you have already.

We move fast, we forget, things happen, and there is a lot to grieve about, complain about, and many things to fix within the Universe. Truth, I won’t deny it. Plant your feet, stand tall, and choose today to see the beauty it all that is, and what can be. If you’re holding something heavy in your heart – Act on it. Call that friend, send a nice text message, or breathe and let it go. Life begins when we choose to see clearly the light and love that is always around us. Embrace the uncertainties, the moments you want to cringe and fall, and let the Universe provide you with so much Love. Begin today to see yourself as a new vessel that carries light and sprinkles it wherever you go. Be aware. Notice what magic unveils when you choose to anchor Love, share love, and be love while sharing your authentic light with others to enjoy. Have a laugh. No worries, only humility and acceptance that some things must die, those emotions never lie… Act when you need, let your heart guide you to advance. Every day you can choose different, live better, make life beautiful. This Universe truly is Beauty, when we choose to see it that way…. Let yesterday be behind you, begin today with a new perspective and opportunity to begin again…


Be Free.


“It’s the pure exploration of living that allows us to expand & navigate toward higher mountains. It’s listening to the soul within your own self that guides you, to tred on, never stop learning, be open to giving, & lead yourself on the highest path to Freedom. Be Free. Pause to breathe. Take life In. Wander Often. Live Better…. Open your eyes & heart to more…” [Kali Bliss]

I’ve taken some time to myself recently. After the hectic Uranus/Square and Karma circumstances life dealt me, I needed a fresh breathe of relaxation and jet setting. I’m enjoying the sweet nuances of life, and the endless beauty that can be seen every day if you take a moment to pause and recognize it. Life is beautiful. Your freedom comes from recognizing it and letting yourself flow towards things and people that you gravitate toward. Soul connections can always be found, and friends, family, relationships, and more help you grow better so you can follow your spirit within. Be free to Wander. Give thanks for every person you engage with. Trust your own journey into Spirit, beyond that, into your own Self. Freedom comes from trusting your heart, and listening to the wisdom and desires within.

~*~ Kali Bliss ~*~

Love Note from the Universe

Fill yourself Friday~ Here is what the Universe Recommends for the wkend:

“Within us all are deeper desires & aspects of ourselves. You are not your body, you are not a materialistic object, or a job You are a Soul with a Spirit that wants to heal so you can live in your highest & best state. Let yourself heal this weekend by coming to terms with you, yourself, & your inner desires. What are you afraid of? What has been coming up for you this week? Can you forgive, let go, & help yourself out by getting back in touch with your heart & the real desires that begin there?”

Mantra: I allow myself to heal. I open my heart, I let love in, & I heal by shining light on what has been buried deep within…

Rest easy this weekend, slow down, & take a time out. Be Open for yourself, and for others. Healing takes place in mysterious ways- a run in, an unexpected phone call, a synchronisic event, or even a letter to self letting you let go & leave behind. ❤ to all


~*~ Kali Bliss ~*~


Liberate & Let Go ~ In Love

Where I live it does not feel like Fall. The sun is shinning the heat is high and the waves are still rolling. Something else is crashing and changing in San awesomeDiego. The heat wave is merely an example of the chaos and confusion I’ve personally experienced the last few months. We need to let go of what we think we know is good and best, and love. Open you heart, breakfree, and stop thinking. You don’t know what is best for you. You think you know. You find freedom by liberating yourself and breaking the barriers that are holding you back. You open up – trust you inner stillness – and let the beat of your heart carry you forward in remarkable ways.  You choices carry you forward. What holding you back from your inner beauty and awesomeness you were born to live? Liberate by letting go and accepting it’s time to make a change – within yourself, and with the rest of the world – to open our hearts more, be honest, and live connected to our heart center.


This massive planetary shift is happening. October is the month I deem of awakening where things will need to happen so we can all be on board with what we need to do to help this world transcend. Can you feel the liberation in you life? Opportunities are coming in, flowing in, for us all. We are ready and prepared to go forward, or are you holding yourself back in lower dimensions? Release the fear and replace it with trust. Know you are here for a reason and your spirit is asking you to freely fly forward.

Liberate yourself from the old and march on. People, thoughts, jobs, and ego patterns hold you back. They keep you binded and blocked from your loving potential. Let go. I see this Fall as a shift in everyones life, whether you are consciously aware of it or now. Things have to fall apart so they can be put back together – better. It’s natural order. The universe supports you with your choices, even if you hold on. I can promise more freedom for you, for your heart, when you stop trying and holding. Be You. Drop the worries, fears, and tap into your heart to connect and help you open up. You know people that you like to be around, you know who empowers you and deflates you. You know what things you do because you think you ‘should’. Get rid of it all and liberate your ego. Let your spirit take you forward with ease and grace, so we can all fly high together.


What is Liberation?

– The ability to feel good in your own skin

– To be honest with yourself, with who you are, and express yourself in loving ways that honor you and others

– To stop holding onto people who bring you down and don’t serve you in your best

– To take action where you need in your life to feel better and be happy

– To smile daily and let yourself walk your own path, despite what others are doing, saying, or reacting

– Accept yourself as you are, the things that are happening, and to love yourself most